WILL THE REAL MEN PLEASE STAND UP!

http://www.wfaa.com/sharedcontent/dws/wfaa/latestnews/stories/wfaa090223_wz_murdersuicide.44660a9f.html

I wanted to touch on this one (i know it seems im all about murder but this one is personal)
My mom teaches at Williams Middle School in Rockwall. She had this student Justin in her class and when she got this news it broke her. It's hard for my family to take news of death, but more so with young kids due to us loosing my little brother. My mom informed me that this boy was found at elm park murder and his father dead next to him. Police have classified it as a murder suicide due to the suicide note the father left. So to break down this story the father apparently shot his son and then himself. Now hearing this story i couldnt help but think what was the son thinking i mean really what was going on and why the hell would you murder a 13 year old boy or better yet YOUR OWN SON. It was very sickening and i wanted the dad to live so maybe someone could get a hold of him and torture the crap out of him. But thats just anger speaking...as i read more into the story police say the father murdered his son for fear that the son was going to prison...police didnt release the charges that he thought hed be going to jail for but come on. Can we please be the dad that we hear about/man that people talk great about...THE MEN THAT WALK TALL? Where was the lesson that you teach your son accept responsibility for your own actions? He was 13 he had time to learn he had things he could have done and should have done, and what about the younger brother left behind with the stepmom? I mean his dad just taught him a lesson of when things get tough bail out or even bail someone out...and not in a good way in a cheap way. Can we as men start to walk tall. I dont know maybe its because i was raised southern and had my dad and uncles and grandpa to lead examples of what a real man is. That just leaves me stounded, even the guys that leave their wives or girlfriends because of a pregnancy or too much responsibility....SUCK IT UP its life you did it now you stick with it...CAN THE REAL MEN PLEASE STAND UP?